The Hard Truth: The future depends on your present

Over a year ago, when I heard that an old friend (she wasn’t a friend) was married, pregnant and abroad, I was overcome with shock. How? We’re the same age? How is she married and I’m not? But as time went by, more and more people in my year were getting married and having children, and I think it’s beautiful. But for some, it’s threatening and pressurising.  I see my future as bright as the sun, so close, yet so far, but I know of some people who are worrying about their blank vision like there’s no tomorrow.

What if I never find someone? You’re supposed to find someone at uni, but I’ve finished uni, WHAT WILL I DO

What am I even going to do with my degree? Why did I choose this. I’m never going to have a stable career

I HAVEN’T FOUND ANYONE YET

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